Mind Reading: How to Know What They are Thinking

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Until you see the movie, here is who John Doe is in the 21st century. You are selling your ideas, products and services…and your SELF, to John every day…so you may as well meet him (and his dear friend Jane Doe).

  • In general people aren’t as satisfied as they could be.
  • Most people only have a moderate amount of self esteem.
  • Two thirds of women and one third of men don’t like the way they look in a mirror.
  • Nearly everyone worries and has a deep-seated fear of rejection.
  • Almost everyone is afraid to grow old.
  • Virtually everyone has a fear of death.
  • Almost everyone works to avoid pain and once in pain will do what it takes to get out of pain.
  • People don’t have time to be smart shoppers and they don’t comparison shop that much.
  • When people get their mind set on something, they want it NOW. (As a rule, people will not delay gratification!)
  • Most people still perceive credit cards as not being equal to real money.
  • People want to make decisions that will make them look good to OTHERS.

That’s just a thumbnail sketch of a few of John and Jane’s traits. They are universal because we have all evolved from the same gene pool and in some transactions tend to respond similarly in social exchanges. In other words…people are somewhat predictable.

Realizing this, how do we sell to John Doe and how do we market to him? How do we make use of the information used by the largest advertising firms in the world on our shoestring budgets? How do we talk to John and Jane so they listen and comply quickly? How do we know what they are THINKING and FEELING?

Know What Your Client Thinks and Feels

Once we know what our prospects’ needs, wants and desires are, we can use this information to prepare a message that firmly impresses upon the mind how we can help them. We can clearly show our prospects how they will feel better, get out of pain and look like they make great decisions to the people in their peer group.

Here is a good model for you to latch onto and make your own:

  1. Paint a clear picture for your reader and bring it up real close. It needs to show this: What you presently have, who you presently are, or how you presently feel is not satisfactory. ==> You can do, have, or be more and FEEL better!
  2. Product/idea/service X helps MANY PEOPLE JUST LIKE YOU get that result.
  3. Try it once. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
  4. Other people will respect you and like you more for using this product/idea/service.
  5. IMAGINE your future as you deserve it to be. You can REACH YOUR DREAMS and achieve your goals if you use this product/idea/service.
  6. This product/idea/service is guaranteed so you can feel secure in making a decision NOW.
  7. To take advantage of this product/idea/service, call/write now because only Y number of people will be allowed to participate. Here’s all you have to do…

Now, obviously not all market messages use this model or all components of it. But, based on the market research I have done, this model appeals to John Doe. Research reveals that John and Jane DO act NOW when responding to this model!

Now it’s up to you. How can YOU implement this model in your sales or business and WILL you start today or wait until tomorrow?


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The research says there are 8 “valences” of persuasion.

I’ve never talked about this with you before.
(Of course, I didn’t have all of this until I had completed all the research…)

Personas are the valences people “use” when influencing. They include characteristics, attitudes and valence of influencer.

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