Productivity vs. Procrastination
Part Two of Three
by Kevin Hogan
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4) Your Relationships
A chronic procrastinator soon finds himself procrastinating
even the simplest things that he has promised, simply because he
did not mean to or sincerely want to finish the task.
You can find yourself promising your wife to fix up the shelves
that she needs in the pantry, or to do your share of household chores.
And yet you procrastinate till she has to call someone in to fix
it, or do it herself. She gets upset, and so do you.
....all because of this stupid thing people are so good at....
Procrastination can wreck havoc on your relationships. Not just
your wife, but your children and your friends.
Promised your kids you will teach them to play baseball? ...or
your friends that contact for a job interview, and never got
round to doing it?
You will soon find yourself earning the irritation of the people
around you.
All because of perpetual delay....
A Few Ideas to Reduce Procrastination
Procrastination is a bad habit that can turn into a rapidly
downward spiraling journey. It starts off innocently as an
avoidance of tasks and responsibilities that need to be
fulfilled, but if allowed to develop, can turn into a nasty
habit.
There are a lot of negative and harmful effects of
procrastination. It is so important that you learn to recognize the
signs and take action to stop procrastinating...now.
My best encouragement is to not think in terms of just doing little
things to feel "success", but to attack BIG PROJECTS and do them to
completion TODAY.
If you have acknowledged that you have a problem, it's time you
sat up and did something about it. DON'T go to Procrastinators
Anonymous! That's doing the same thing.
Don't let procrastination ruin your life, relationships and job.
Try one or more of these....
#1: Get It Done Thinking
Your responsibilities can be done; no matter how daunting and
challenging they may seem initially. Tell yourself that you WILL
do it, and that you choose to do so. Recognize the fact that
procrastinating is deadly, and that you choose to overcome
it, either by speaking to someone you trust to guide you, or by
buckling down and making stuff happen.
The key here is that
you want to overcome your habit of procrastinating, and that
you choose to MOVE on what has to be done.
#2: Be Well Equipped
Part of getting any task done is having the right tools to do
it. Make sure that you are well equipped mentally as well as
physically. If it is an assignment that is due, make sure that
you have done your research, or spoken to the clients, supervisors,
tutors or superiors that you should have spoken to. Draw up a
schedule to help you plan out what needs to be done, and what
you have to do to accomplish your task.
For more ideas to reduce procrastination, turn the page...