I'm going to move away from how I've been talking into a transitional
form of goal communication. More formal, if you will.
Ready to make this summer a great one?
Step One: Specify the Goal
In order to achieve any outcome/goal, you have to first know exactly
what you're trying to achieve. And you must be at LEAST
as SPECIFIC as I was above!
Most of us make the mistake of being vague with our goals. We
say things like:
I want to lose weight.
I want more money.
I want a better job.
I want to be happy.
That's like going into a restaurant and telling the waitress,
"I want something to eat."
It's stupid.
I can't remember the last time I said, "I want more money."
What's the point?
If you say that, it simply won't happen.
WHAT ARE YOU ACTUALLY GOING TO DO?
WHAT RESULT WILL ACTUALLY OCCUR?
That's what I mean by specific.
You'll need to be a LOT more specific when you set your goals.
Each goal you set should include this information:
What
Where
How
Whom (if others are involved or affected)
When
Why
Here is brief explanation of each point:
What: this should identify the "meat" of your goal. What you
want to accomplish.
Where: location, if applicable (like getting a job in your
local area or moving to a new area).
[I confess I don't like these kind of "job" goals because they
do NOT rely almost solely on your personal effort. Where others
are significantly involved, you are HOPING and not DOING.]
How: you may have a preference as to "how" events will unfold
(this may not always be within your TOTAL control, but having a
general expectation is good).
Whom: if your goals involve others, you'll want to highlight
your expectations. And remember to address what happens
when they bail out, get sick, die, have to go to a soccer game
with their kids....you get the idea.
When: a general timeline for the fulfillment of your goals.
Why: your reasons for wanting to achieve your goals. Be pretty
specific on these reasons and try to focus on the BENEFITS
and the avoidance of what you DON'T want.
So, for example, I want the NEW Body Language Home Study Course
to be FRESH. I might have a couple of shots of Clinton and Gore
and Kerry and Bush because I've analyzed them so many times
but we need to be looking at a LOT MORE CURRENT stuff...
to bring this out of 2000 and 2004 and into 2008.
Also...it's going to be far more valuable to the owner of the course
as far as total knowledge learned. We continue to use celebrity
stuff I've analyzed, but we expand on the knowledge dispensed
in the course so that people go, "DAMN that was GOOD," when
they are done.